Miles certainly do matter, for the reasons mentioned above (bearings, etc...), but I think for EV's total number of "cycles" will be a factor. All electronics degrade with thermal cycling over time. And we know that batteries have a cycle-life.
As to if it's as severe for electronic devices as mileage is to mechanical devices remains to be seen a bit, but I suspect on the whole EV's will be more reliable.
I too, have an early 2013 car, and I've had the drive-train replacements, which seem to be much less of an issue. A bunch of small items (power steering rack attachment, brake caliper/splash guards, headliner fitment, issues, etc...) that are probably much more indicative of growing pains for a new model, than long-term reliability.
The one significant out-of-warranty failure I've had is a charger failure. That's a $2500 replacement. And from what I've been told by my service advisor (and experiences here seem to agree), it's a very uncommon failure. So I'm not entirely ready to chalk that up to age/cycles.. but electronics do fail. Especially power electronics. It will be interesting to see how inverters, chargers, HVJBs, etc... fair over time...