Dang...I'm on 2020.40.3 still even though I have advanced software updates enabled and tesla has plenty of WIFI signal...
Maybe I need to have it checked at a service center to make sure something isn't blocking this particular Tesla from getting updates?
Also want to add...that a month or so ago the software wigged out after a restart and all of our profile data was wiped, so not sure if there is still a glitch with my current configuration that is blocking new updates.