In what way have you found this [behavior in stop and go traffic] to have got worse and what's the difference between your cars?
I've had a lot more time with fsd beta since writing the other post so I have more to say about FSDb vs VO vs Radar, but my opinion on VO and Radar remains the same. It was a toss up. Sometimes it would be better on radar, sometimes worse. In both VO and Radar, the tesla would leave too much of a gap between the car infront and my tesla which encouraged people to cut infront thinking I was letting them in or it pissed off people behind me. I think it's important to note that engaging navigate on autopilot and entering stop and go traffic showed a smaller gap than starting navigate on autopilot while already in stop and go traffic. It's like it takes some driving for the car to realize it's in stop and go and then close the gap.
Also, being able to reduce following distance to 1 does seem to help radar keep that gap smaller. Regardless, the gapping issue in radar and VO was a minor albeit frustrating issue. I think other drivers just assumed I was senile or high and reacted accordingly.
But the reason I stopped using autopilot in stop and go wasn't for the gapping issue, it was for the actual stop and go behavior. You see, in radared autopilot, especially, but even in VO, you would get a sense for when autopilot would misbehave and be ready to take over. Like for instance, when driving in the sun on VO or cresting a steep hill on VO or on this one part of the highway on radar and so on. The issue in stop and go, even if you are watching it, you could only respond after the error happens. The error being sudden harsh acceleration in stop and go and/or harsh braking. In my experience, it feels like the car is taunting the following car to rear end my car when this happens or brake checking the car behind me. I know from watching the driver's faces in stop and go, some have thought the latter. Both VO and radar would do this unpredictably. Sometimes it would be better with updates, sometimes worse but it was so scary when it happens that I stopped using any autopilot on radar or VO in stop and go. Now that I updated my VO tesla to FSDb, I'm not sure if this has improved on VO teslas recently.
Given this was my rule of thumb for radar and VO, it carried over to being my rule of thumb for FSDb too. However, it may not need to be anymore. I'm slowly learning to trust FSDb more and in the few times I let it do its thing in stop and go, it performed well. It still gapped more than I'd like but the gapping, except through intersections, felt consistent. Giving the impression of a cautious driver rather than a senile or high driver. Further more, the actual stoping and going was more human like and gradual. I still disengage FSDb in stop and go but for a different reason. When stopped, it sometimes points it's wheels 45 degrees to the left or right for no percievable reason and without a blinker. Honestly idk what it's thinking or what it would do if I left FSDb on but I don't want to give it a chance to do something dumb in congested traffic, so I disable, drive a bit, re enable.
I still need more experience and testing but FSDb is giving me early hope that tesla has solved stop and go autopilot behavior, at least for going in a straight line. I haven't trusted FSDb to do any turns at intersections in congested stop and go yet and because of how much harder it is to intervene on 90 degree turns with a yoke, I likely won't trust it until it performs 90 degree intersection turns consistently very well in light traffic conditions.
As for HD radar, if he does reintroduce it next year and he doesn't provide an easy upgrade path for at least his fully purchased FSD customers and continues to make FSD tied to the car instead of the account... It may be a death nail for consumer trust in tesla. As tesla owners, we put up with a lot we wouldn't put up with in other brands for the sake of the unique experiences tesla offers. I'm fine with buying fsd in full for my two teslas but admittedly, neither currently provide 15k in value for what is offered. If he plans to introduce radar and abandon vision only and old radar cars... it may be enough to turn me off the brand. Especially with how he overhyped vision only when it seemed a transparent way, thinly veiled in lies, to push the burdens of supply chain issues onto his consumers. If HD radar is coming, I hope tesla does the right thing.