First I am 64. So health care isn't an issue for me. And I have never made more than $40,000 in any year I have been alive. My Average yearly income is below $20,000. And I have lived a very good life. I work to live, not live to work. And I was influenced by Thoreau while in college. BS from Auburn, and Master's from Florida State University. As having so low an annual salary My Social security check is less than a thousand dollars. Which is almost enough for me to live on. But I recently married and she is in the field of Stochastics, and has her Doctorate in some area of Optimization. So money is something I think about even less. She doesn't spend much, so her bank account is growing quickly based solely on her work income.
You'll never see me post a photo of me drinking a bottle of beer or a shot of scotch that costs more than a Publix Sub. And I go into a grocery store having the prices determine what I will eat the next week instead of deciding what I feel like.
Twenty years ago I bought my first home. And I started planting trees in it that I would provide me with real food.Mangoes, Bananas, Lychees, Muscadines, and the odd citrus tree as I live in Florida. I was not considering buying a home. I was living in a County Park for free because it had a small lake, and I had been a lifeguard for the county for a few years. And the county had "caretakers" that were either law enforcement or firefighters that lived in their own trailer in the park for free. I bought the trailer from the previous caretaker for $1500. All I had to do was call the police of someone came into the park at night and was acting a fool. So...I purchased the home because it was too good a deal. Long story. After two years the man that sold it to me and came back to tell me how good a deal I got because the IRS had audited him claiming he would not have sold the house for that little. He set the price, not me. And he worked for the FBI so it wasn't like I took advantage of some senile old man. The house is now 7x the value I paid for it. A friend who owned a real estate business did the closing for me for cost. He was a bit nervous doing it until he met the man and determined he was of sound mind.
My hobbies also improve the bottom line..I used to hunt and fish. Now since I live on the coast I can pretty much offer any guest a fresh fish dinner...if they are willing to hold a pole for an hour.
I have an expensive hobby, Koi. I have a 51,000 gallon koi pond in my backyard. I Know a man that builds them for other people. He is also a friend. His estimate for if he built the pond for one of his clients was over $250,000. My costs were under $20,000. It took me 2 years just to finish digging the hole with a shovel.
Lake Luke
I also get my koi for very little money as I will take vacations to koi breeders and work with them for a few days during their busy times. And I am considered a gifted culler. As one breeder put it, "Luke you see the final koi. You see good traits. But you also see what I not see. You see in baby koi adult koi hobbyists want that is not good koi." He used to raise an eye at some of my selections. Now he smiles at himself. I can actually ask for any of the babies I cull through. And while the finished (large) koi are valuable, the babies are 1/10th the price so it is not costing the breeder to have me cull through his koi and pick some ones I like..especially since my tastes are esoteric.
I get most of my clothes at Goodwill ( If you do start shopping at Goodwill go on a Sunday morning because they rotate out the stock based on a color-coded tag, and the week before that color will be pulled from the floor they reduce it 50%. ) The only clothes I don't buy from Goodwill are underwear, socks, and shoes.
I do not travel much, once every few years going cross country. HOWEVER TSLA is going to give me a new Cybertrck to explore wherever wheels can take me. When I travel I do insane things like stop at a grocery store for a snack (fruit) instead of a coffee at starbucks. I have two starbucks gift cards on the fridge, and starbucks is three blocks down the street. And I have had those cars for at least 2 years...
Now I am going to go take a nap...on a second hand bed I really enjoy, with second hand high count thread sheets I got from Goodwill. Even the pillows are from a thrift store, but they were still in the plastic.
I do buy new vehicles but only because in my youth when I had very little money I had to buy used, and unfortunately always got some car that was undependable. So I buy "new," and keep them for 10-15 years. The ICE Dodge 5.7 liter hemi I am driving now is a 2008... I think? It has to last two more years. No Problem, it could last much longer.
I enjoy my life. More or less. But what I have shared is not my life.