Soon to be Tesla Model Y owner, yes I think it is better than all other electric SUVs out now based on extensive research I've done.
Similar to your situation, soon to be Tesla model Y owner. I think the Tesla is the best option in its price and size range. If I had more money, I'd probably go with the BMW iX over the Tesla Model X or Rivian (my current car is a BMW and generally a fan of the brand) but I found the relative trade offs in the $70k price range to be slightly in Tesla's favor. My general thoughts:
I didn't like the styling of the Hyundai or kia offerings - too racer hatchback feel for me. Also not a fan of the styling of the Mercedes EQB. The Volkswagen ID4 horror stories will keep me away from it and the Audi Q4 (which also feels rather pedestrian) although the Porsche Taycan seems very nice and I would seriously consider, but not a SUV.
Of the serious choices, I think it came down to the Tesla model Y, Ford Mustang Mach-E, Bolt EUV, and Toyota Rav 4 Prime for me. If I could get a Toyota Rav 4 Prime at MSRP, I would since it's a great practical SUV and the plug-in nature means it has enough range for most of my daily uses. However, the ridiculousness of Toyota dealerships with markups and the long waitlists of the ones without markups basically means it's off the list for a terrible buying experience. The Bolt EUV is decent but it's definitely a bit small and cramped.
That leaves the Ford mustang mach-e vs the Tesla Model Y. I spent a lot of time looking at both cars in person. The shared pros are that both cars are mature platforms, decent styling, and have enough cargo space. Also, they have shared cons of quality issues that both brands have. I don't think one is better than the other outside of the mind of fanboys. I think it came down to the following for me: 1) Tesla has bigger cargo space, 2) better software, and 3) better buying experience (yes you can pre-order a ford without a dealer markup but I need one soon - my existing car has about $3k of maintenance that I know I'll have to pay for if I keep it beyond March of 2023 and it's worth much less than $3k now in trade in value).
Biggest con for Tesla is no apple CarPlay but my current car doesn't have it so I think I can live without it. I also think all the feature changes like no USS is annoying but I'll take the better suspension over USS.
I think the Mach-E is worth considering at $5k less than the Tesla but at price parity, the