My experience was the opposite. I've lived for a few months in West Bank, my girlfriend at the time worked in Gaza strip for UN.As a second point I forgot to add. If the funds haven't been released to Iran yet, they should stop the transfer immediately.
I am sure Netanyahu might have poked a bit. At the same time, in general the IDF has been very surgical to minimize killing civilians. The indiscriminate slaughter and of Israeli citizens is where they lost any empathy from me.
I won't claim to be an expert on Israeli/Palestinian affairs. I was sort of on the fence between side I felt had a better position for me to support them. I have Israeli and Palestinian friends. I had listened to them both. I ended up going to Israel and the Middle East in as well multiple times. I ended up spending some time there in both the Israeli-controlled areas as well as the Palestinian-controlled areas. Maybe not a long time but about 6 weeks in total.
While I walked through the same checkpoints the Palestinians would cross over between the Palestinian and Israeli-controlled areas. The crudeness which I saw the Israelis manning the checkpoint by the Palestinians just blew me away. The Israelis I saw treated everyone with respect crossing through. The Palestinians would curse, spit at the Israelis, act belligerent and generally be uncooperative like nothing I've seen at a border crossing checkpoint. Once inside I was shocked at how often they tried to take advantage of me and my friends in some way or another. For example wanting to charge me $100 for a 5 mile taxi ride. They would try and cheat me at stores. About the only place I was treated normally, or even approaching "well" was at an international hotel.
By contrast, I was treated well almost everywhere I went in Israel. This wasn't because I was an American. I was as incognito with my national identity everywhere I went. At the time I had Russian flags on my backpack and Russian stickers on my suitcase. Easy to do as I speak, read and write Russian fluently.
I had long ago learned that nobody generally messes with Russians when they are traveling except for a few countries. So if anything, for the Palestinians, I would have been coming from a country that was more sympathetic to their plight. So if this was how they treated their "friends", it showed me a lot about their mindset. This was pretty much true everywhere I went in the Palestinian-controlled areas. Pretty much everywhere I went in the Middle East I traveled as a "Russian" until I had to produce my passport for travel or check-in. I can only imagine how they would have treated me in Palestinian areas if they had known I was an American. Even traveling with my Russian-speaking (and Arabic-speaking) Muslim girlfriend, they tried to cheat us at almost every turn. The verbal abuse, cat-calling, and disrespect she dealt with was pretty bad as well. She never let on that she was Muslim. I asked why not; she said it would just be worse... They even wanted to charge us $200 to go into the Al Aqsa Mosque.
I never saw a Palestinian treated poorly by Israelis. I did see a lot in the opposite direction. Suffice to say, after my last trip, I had a pretty good idea of which side I was more willing to support. I am not going to say I saw all the behind scenes conflict, but I definitely had enough experience with how I saw Palestinians treat others to have a solid opinion about that. My girlfriend at the time came away with a very negative opinion as well. She was strongly in favor of Palestinians prior and in about 3 trips there, they were able to lose her empathy.
As much as, an Italian, I find myself "culturally" more comfortable in Israel (Tel Aviv, Jerusalem), I'd be radicalized in a month if I lived as the Palestinians. (The fact that Israel is more culturally "western", also, speaks volume about history: they are all "immigrants", by definition). I remember that going to Hebron was a real eye-opener for me. And I never went to Gaza, as it is a prison and almost nobody can enter and exit.
The fact that they are bitter, or I personally don't like large traits of the Arab culture (especially the more misogynistic ones) is IMHO secondary to the reality of the situation: as much as I dislike Hamas and what they bring to the table, Palestinians by and large are second or third class citizens, they are the oppressed ones. They suffer most casualties, even amongst children, by settlers and IDF violence.
I'm not saying I'm justifiying the horrible news we are seeing, but I've long taken the red pill about media portraits of the conflict.
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