So while I told myself I didn't care which headlights came on the car... because I don't plan on declining the car for that reason (mostly because I've waited this long and I can no longer deal with sharing one car between my wife and I lol) Curiosity did get the best of me, and since I do have my vin now I decided to reach out to tesla and ask if they can confirm if my car will have the matrix headlights, in which the SA did look at the config/specs of my car and did confirm my car has them. Hoping that's 100% accurate, but she was very sure. That being said, hopefully this helps put others at ease that have a vin range near me or after mine.