shrspeedblade
Rideshare Monkey
Could be relevant, I'm 59 years old and had been driving Lincoln Town Cars prior to getting my Model S, by comparison the model S rides like a Buckboard and I have active air suspension. Perhaps someday someone will make a compelling EV with a suspension option or a means to tune the suspension for those of us who still appreciate the classic Boulevard ride.
Not all of us are interested in going from 0 to 60 with our hair on fire or having racetrack Ready cars some of us just want a nice comfortable quiet ride.
It's not so much an age thing, as there are 60 year old track rats that want a firm responsive ride and 20 somethings that don't.
I could only assume you have your Model S set to "comfort" with the air suspension? Also do you have the stock 19s or the 21s?
Don't drive a lot like this, but drop the pressures down to 32psi on all 4 tires and go for a short drive with the Model 3 over a bumpy section of road. Any difference? (Keeping in mind as has been mentioned the suspension WILL soften up as it 'wears in, but it's never going to be a Lincoln Town Car, along with just about anything else.)
I for one am dubious of these super high pressures Tesla is recommending people run.