I ordered White/White MYLR on 5/7. I'm in NY. It makes sense to put my order in the back pack since mine is the one of the base models and has no additional items. I don't even subscribe EAP or FSD yet (I plan to add the monthly plan when I need them. I'll use this car 95%+ in the jammed NYC traffic). And, I won't be surprised if anyone ordering White/White with 7-seats or Tow or 20" in May/June is placed in front of me.
Before I ordered the car, I had made an appointment to discuss with Tesla Advisor from the west coast. After test-driving the car, I received another advisor who helped me on that date. However, It's hard to get any further info out of the 2nd guy. And, luckily I have the office# from the 1st guy, so I always call and leave the VM, then he then reached me back by the call or text.
This wait time is good. I haven't decided the cash or lease. And, As long as they don't assign the already-built or rejected car from the lot to me, longer I wait, better chance for me to get HW4.