I've had this problem for a week or so: I get "Waking car..." whenever I try to connect from my iPhone to the car while the car is on WiFi at home. When it's stuck like that, both the phone and the car have working internet connections, and whenever it's on 3G, it connects fine. This morning, I deleted the WiFi setting in the car so it would connect on 3G, then the app connected fine, and just now I re-connected to WiFi, and I'm back to "Waking car".
I usually have VisibleTesla running, but the problem persists if I close it. But when it's in this state where the phone won't connect, Visible Tesla won't connect either.
I tried one more thing: Reboot the 17" in the garage, and when it came back, it connected on WiFi, and then I could connect from my phone. Then I disconnected the car from WiFi, waited 'till it connected on 3G, then re-connected on WiFi. Back to not able to connect (spinner for a while, then "Waking car...").
So it seems that I'm seeing the same issue breser described above and in the other thread, and the problem happens only when the car's on WiFi. Rebooting only fixes it until the car switches to 3G and back to WiFi.
I'm on 2.2.140. I've disabled WiFi in the car and I'll leave it that way until I get a firmware upgrade or I hear here that the issue has been fixed. The only downside is the daily nag message saying I should connect to WiFi.