They're both pretty awesome, different ... but also kind of the same
The Wrangler is super fun, it's is kind of got its own thing going: a boxy throwback, an incredibly capable off road vehicle, a modular LEGO with just an insane amount of parts, configs, options, etc.
How we got from a Mustang GT convertible and a DD/RT to a Tesla and Wrangler 4xe is probably a longer story than anyone wants to hear, but in terms of timing, we got the 4xe about 3 months before the M3P.
The Tesla is now the road trip car (vs. the old SUV), because the Jeep is now the topless ride (vs. the old Mustang)
The top stays off 80-85% of the time (we've got an electric hoist, just hangs out of the way in the garage), so the Tesla is our "environment controlled" ride, when it's nasty hot, or raining (vs. putting the top back on the Jeep).
The 4xe is pretty awesome, it has all the perks of a loaded Wrangler JLU: Alpine 500 watt audio (with water resistant speakers), LED lighting upgrade, upgraded interior, plus 375HP / 470 ft-lbs of TQ as needed, it's so quick off the line too, I mean, for a box, ~5 seconds 0-60, and it has 2WD, 4WD, Hi/Lo range, just like any ICE Wrangler.
We mostly run it on battery since we use it around town for < 15 mile drives (when we occasionally engage the ICE, our blended gas MPG is ~47MPG).
It hits up the beach pretty regularly (down at our SUP spot, that's "4x4 only"), it does occasional "dirty duty" at the hardware store. We kind of blend our mileage, so the Jeep gets used around town more and the Tesla gets more long[er] trip mileage like down to Orlando/Universal a few times a year.
It's pretty effective for us as a PHEV, especially for how it's designed combined with how we use it (i.e., short electric only trips, tons of power when needed). That being said, and now having owned a BEV for almost a year, if we do another Wrangler, it will have to be a full on BEV
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