I can think of a bunch, just in my kitchen (microwave, refrigerator, range, heck even my toaster oven). But none of these manufacturers refuse to sell a service manual or parts to non-factory/non-authorized repair personnel.There are plenty of things that I own that 1) only run executable code, and 2) for which I don't have a right to source code or diagnostic tools.
You left out "repairing", which is key to the discussion. As far as I'm concerned, if you own something, you should have the right to have anyone, including yourself, repair it. I can do a brake job on a car without reverse engineering the ABS system and decompiling the embedded code in the ABS controller, but I have to be able to get the parts (and possibly the instructions, if there's something unusual about the job).I'm not saying what Tesla should do here or not, only pointing out that *owning* something gives you the right to use it, destroy it, sell it, etc. It doesn't give you the right to have everything that went into the making of it, so that you can modify it.
Not that car manufactures haven't been making this difficult for years; long before the Deere/DMCA silliness discussed over here Porsche made it hard for independent shops to get a PST2 tester and only then for something like $15k and (IIRC) Mercedes wouldn't release a lot of service info, which (again, IIRC) was part of the push behind Mass right-to-repair.