I understand why people might take offense to receiving this if they've gone out of their way to use supercharging "appropriately" (using this term per the Tesla intent of them, not to incite the local supercharging argument). I wouldn't, personally, but would probably think back and try to figure out what I'd done that was excessive. I haven't received the letter, either way.
Of course, there's the concern that's been alluded to in this thread regarding the motivation behind the letter. Something triggered the concern - either looking forward at the anticipated growth vs. the potential for infrastructure buildout, energy costs, queues somewhere, etc. I'd like to know that piece of information.
I spoke with a Tesla employee recently who mentioned a few things that seemed a little far fetched. One of them was in regards to "free" Supercharging, and the implication was that it won't be offered with the Model X. I brushed it away, because I think it would be ugly from a marketing perspective, and it just doesn't seem in line with the existing model. However, paying $2000 to enable supercharging, and being billed for your consumption certainly would change some behaviors. Again, I believe it's totally unsubstantiated and unrealistic, just mentioning it because perhaps with the Model 3 it would be a realistic option.