That’s where I find myself at the moment. We hardly use the third row, but on some occasions it has come in handy. My second row (2016 X) does not fold. A newer SUV with folding rows would be a nice amenity for when I haul things for small home improvement projects around the house. Still going back and forth every day - no we don’t need to upgrade, maybe the X, maybe a Y, etc.
We test drove the Y, but my wife found the 3rd row a no-go for her older parents and our tall son; otherwise I'd be considering it. I don't like the FWD but I don't see another good option for a large vehicle that's still really efficient.
I ended up putting down a deposit for a 7-seater X, though I'm not sure we'll take delivery since (and apologies to those who have paid much more in the past..) the cost is so darn high relative to a new Y, or used X. I can't believe I'm even considering it, even though I have a 90D and an older minivan to trade in.
I'm really hoping they find a way to sneak the 7-seater into the $80k window in a end of year sale or such. I can't take a business deduction on it. People with kids have less money to spend than the 5-seater families, not more! (Help, Elon! Or anyone at Tesla if they're reading this.) I'd even sign an agreement that I'd buy the $6k EAP later, if they give me the tax credit (7-seater + non-black interior?) and transferred the free super charging.
I'm partly a sucker for the FUSC because I'm imagining that the supercharger fees will grow much faster than inflation, and I'll end up kicking myself in 6 years when it's $2.00/kWh during busy times. (Though it's probably cheaper to pay that, and not take the depreciation and tax hits on a new car)