I finally got a chance to do a quick profile of the current software on the car, that came with the Tidal update. v2021.40.6 I used an old AudioSource RTA because it's portable and convenient, but it's not as good as REW of course. I'll do an REW pass soon.
EQ set to all zeros. At 75% volume, this is what I get when playing pink noise:
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That's a nearly perfect sample for a Harmann curve. Boosted bass, flat across midrange, taper off the highs.
Depends upon what people want to hear, but the Harmann curve is sort of the expected standard nowadays. I think the SR stereo was also tuned up by Tesla for that last update, because this is better than my original tests with different firmware.
I typically try to get a completely flat response from the EQ, but it hasn't worked that well in my Model 3 because it drains out too much bass. So for the time being I'm going with the Harmann curve as well.
So based on this quick test, I'd say starting at all zeroes, then slightly tuning the EQ to suit is probably a good path. If you think it's too shrill, you can drop the center EQ by one or two DB for example. If there isn't enough bass, you can bump the far left EQ.
I think it's a little muffled sounding, so I bump the far right EQ to +1 to help with clarity. The SR doesn't have any tweeters, so we are missing anything above about12K.