This goes against the logic of how chargers share power. In talking to a newbie yesterday he was told by sales staff to do just this. While it may work at some locations, it will not work at all locations. Maumee, OH, for instance is set up 1a,2a,3a and then 1b,2b,3b. One could end up on the same charger by using the farthest away logic depending on what other slots are taken. Is it not easier just to pick a non paired vacancy?
Following the pairing is of course the best way. Unfortunately, it takes longer to explain this, and believe it or not some people have trouble understanding it. So I suspect the sales staff have simplified it, which as you point out will not always yield the best result.
I believe the best option is for the the car to tell the driver where to go when arriving at a SuC. We've been suggesting this for awhile. Tesla has the data. They just need to spend a few cycles to implement it. It will also work in the future if Tesla makes changes to the SuC design. They could move to 3:1 (pedestal to cabinet) or 1:1 and it still works. Of course you wouldn't need it if the ratio is 1:1, but different ratios can be used by SuC location without changing the customer experience.