Every time there is a thread like this one, the words that go through my mind are 'whose car is this?'
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Yes. Which comes back to whose car is this? .... and are OTA updates a good thing or do they allow Tesla to duck and dive far too much? Makes it look like stuff is always being fixed or just about to be fixed when in fact it's more the exact opposite.
My primary frustration, along those lines, is the auto wipers and auto headlights are a fully solved problem.
The solutions are not particularly technical, either. Neither requires AI or "deep learning" or calibration.
The problem - as you touched on - is that Tesla basically decided not to do what every other manufacturer did, and go their own way, and it's the customers who suffer and have no choice. They could've just deployed a $5 (or less, at scale) Bosch rain sensor and a front facing camera to "see" distant rear lights, etc.
In the former case Tesla in its infinite wisdom decided to use AI and cameras to try and work out when its raining. They failed. The system as it exists does not even rise to reach parity with the aforementioned $5 rain sensor, even before you consider how much has been spent in development man-hours on it, or the wasted CPU cycles consumed doing it.
In the latter case the car has front facing cameras, so it really ought not to be difficult to solve the auto headlights problem. The car evidently has ambient light sensors too, since it will turn the dipped beam on when needed. For whatever reason though Tesla don't seem at all interested in solving this problem. I am not convinced there has been any improvement in it since I got the car, or that any improvement should be expected any time soon.
AP1 cars had rain sensors, and I'm reliably informed that their auto wipers work as you'd expect - i.e. properly. Somehow, cars built years later are orders of magnitude worse. It is long past the time Tesla accepted that the "cameras & AI detects rain" gambit has failed.