It will come, you've been patient this long
I don't have a VIN either. So it's time for another beer
People getting VINs with EDDs into the end of OCT means they are within those 20k-ish not yet delivered vehicles. You don't get a VIN assigned on an empty frame only, you get it when the car is legally considered a vehicle. So their EDD is waiting for the vehicle to get on the truck, clear customs, and so on. Yours is not even built yet, which means it's possible to get another EDD further on. Sorry to burst your bubble, here is a beer
You most probably (like me) will get no ultrasonic sensors, updated doors, possible matrix lights.