(I don't think fault is relevant when evaluating AV collision rates).
I don't see why it wouldn't be. If your position is that we should look at overall traffic safety and collision rates, independent of other details like type of collision, extent of injuries, or fault assignment, well I can appreciate the merit of simplicity. And I agree with your point that a driver can cause or greatly contribute to the cause of an accident, even while being legally cleared.
However, the problem is when we try to figure out just how good is some very good future AV. Let's assume that 50% - no let's even make it 75% - of accidents are avoidable by very good defensive driving behavior from other drivers. That still leaves 25% of accidents being unavoidable.
So if you introduce one perfectly-driving AV into this world, you can statistically eliminate only that 75% of all accidents that we deemed to be avoidable. The AV will likely go longer than a human driver between accidents, but only four times longer. Roughly 2 million miles MTBF instead of 500,000 miles. And by refusing to consider the fault determination, we cannot make the case that the AV is any better than 4X human safety - even if it is engineered perfectly.
While this sounds at first like an encouraging Improvement, it's far from a highly compelling case. Consider that shoulder belts and collision survival engineering have made far more than a 4X Improvement in fatality and serious injury rates, yet it took decades for us to get where we are now regarding public acceptance and industry-wide best practices.
Also, you can be sure that AV detractors would tirelessly highlight those accidents involving the robots, especially if the published statistics routinely ignored the at-fault details.
It's only by including the at-fault metric that we would really capture the (nearly) zero accident rate of our hypothetically perfectly-engineered AVs. So I would say it's not only relevant, but actually essential that the at-fault metric should be the main one.
While I agree that at-fault is not a correct or satisfying binary determination in many cases, I'm saying it can't be ignored.