So, my charge port is fifteen and a half feet from my outlet, nose in.
When I go on a trip, my hand is on the charge cord. It is, I would say, hard to forget.
It doesn't rain in my garage
I have two 220 volt outlets, so my car can charge at the same time
And as I don't have an expensive "Wall Connector", I have no need for firmware updates.
Sure, one could get excited about spending hundreds of dollars more, having to hire an electrician, etc., etc., but it is NOT NECESSARY. I've been charging off this same outlet ever since I bought my RAV4EV more than a dozen years ago. Still works fine, does the job.
But if it makes you feel good to spend the money, or somehow feel that your charger does more than mine, well, go right ahead. But I like to point out that people who spend small amounts unnecessarily will often spend more without reason. So, you're right. It's not just about speed, but necessity. A lot of people buy things they don't need. And a lot of people have things they don't need. I hope I'm not one of them. But far be it from me to say that a "wall connector" is not needed by some folk. Just not me.