We know there were "people from California" due in to help with Ludicrous upgrades in both Virginia and Florida. We know they didn't show up. We don't know why.
I don't remember exactly when the web page to place a deposit opened, but people were writing to get on the waiting list before Musk finished speaking back on July 17. My guess is that you're in line behind people who wrote in before there was a way to actually place a deposit on line, but of course we're talking about Tesla and my guess is based on the way a good company that cares about communication with its customers would handle something like this, so on second thought my guess is probably worthless.
Good luck, though!