So, I think Tesla might handle statistical outliers like you in one of 2 ways.... Either offer you a bluetooth fob at some expense, likely more than you want (recouping all development costs from very few people) OR just say RFID and smartphone is the standard answer and let the 3rd party developers solve it. I've read enough people in this thread to acknowledge you exist, but you represent such a small percentage of Tesla buyers, that I am not sure how Tesla will handle you.
Your reply quoted here was in regards to a comment about people who don't carry a cell phone with them all the time, and your take on it was that this is a corner case. Perhaps so. The problem is, this thread has listed quite a number of "corner cases", each one potentially dismissible in a similar fashion. Collectively, however, I cannot believe that what we are dealing with is a "corner case". Rather, it seems to me like there is a serious problem here, where moving a critical safety and usability aspect of the operation of this vehicle to a cell phone in pursuit of a future vision is going to cause problems in the here-and-now, and really needs to be re-thought.
If I'm wrong, and in fact all these have been considered, then there needs to be a clear document which lists each issue and the associated mitigation that has been put in place, and critically, those mitigation actions
cannot be mutually exclusive. Properly designed, the system should not force me to choose between safety and convenience. For example, if the car unlocks as I approach, I must have a way to prevent it from unlocking the passenger door along with the driver's. That's a safety requirement; not negotiable (ask my wife). Ok, so it's a setting. Fine. But at the same time, I must be able to reasonably and quickly unlock the passenger door, without having get fully into the car and tap a bunch of buttons on the center screen, and
without changing that setting. Is there a passenger door lock/unlock button on the driver's door? I presume so, but looked at the posted pictures and couldn't find any evidence of it. And even so, that's the solution we had in the last century. A key fob in your pocket with buttons to push is the accepted standard for this; one click unlock, two for the passenger. Tap-and-hold or double-tap of the keycard would be ok. Cell phone app or car configuration setting is not sufficient because they are not dynamic enough. When approaching your car, you need to be alert and aware of your surroundings. The last thing you want to do in a sketchy parking garage is to take out your cell phone and poke at it. Bad Tesla. No biscuit.