You think that..but you're wrong.It seems to me that most people who hate/don't like the MY/MYP suspension want the cushy ride and the performance is at the bottom of their list, which is not a bad thing at all. You just bought a wrong car for your needs. That's all.
First thing is, as much as you think it is, MY is not a sports car...It might accelerate quickly because it has an electrical motor but it isn't a sports car...its primary customer doesn't even care about that. And even if they did, the suspension still isn't good enough. THIS IS AN SUV.
But beyond that...It isn't that people want cushy..they just want it to not be so harsh...Porsche SUVs are not nearly as bad in the back...People are often very ok with a Merc/BMW type feel where you feel the road..but you have a nice ride. Not an overly plush ride..just a nice ride.
I'm sorry you can't see this...which is fine...but you're in the small minority....Koolaid runs strong with some..