I do roughly the same thing especially from Portland, OR to Centralia, WA where the speed limit is 70mph most of the way. The speed limit for Semi's is 60mph so I can modulate realistically between 65mph and 80mph.
If the car tries to precondition early its using MY energy.
I don't mind it saying "Hey, I need 6-7% near the destination to warm", but I do mind it turning on at the start and tumbling down my estimate from 40% to 20% before I've even reached the 70mph speed limit.
It's basically saying "Nope, I'm going to use this energy so guess who gets to drive in the slow lane?"
I used to have a beautiful relationship with preconditioning, but over the last 6 months its just been an arsehole.