Preventive eMMC change is best option, every 2-3 years. Either way its risky even to desolder working eMMC there is small posibility to change/alter/damage original data during the process. Proces of desolder/solder is risky.
Tesla is not to blame, this tegra is nvidia “of the shelf” embed system which can be found i Volvo, audi multimedia systems and some industrial tools.
They should use something like this, plug&play emmc and this aggony could be much easier.
For my own car i made clone of tegra with changed eMMC , if one dies on the road, another prepared in glovebox