Early days... SC's were full of mostly like-minded nerds, enthusiasts, geeks, etc - who would take time to learn every nuance of the car, and SC etiquette. People would get out, and talk. Met one very interesting 'old guy' who would show-up at SC's, wouldn't charge, just liked to socialize with 'cool' people.
These days... it's bro's, crazy rich assholes, golfers, and jerks who bought their Tesla for 'status'. They sit in their cars staring at their phones, have no idea about paired charging... and could care less.
Fortunately, few in the latter category bother to read forums, so hopefully I'm not offending any of you... (though go ahead and feel free to flame me with your weak and boring; not a flame thrower.)