Yes I follow what you are saying. There were previous posts on this thread that suggested that part of the reason that the Model S feared better in the crash was because it is a much heavier vehicle. What you are saying is that would be incorrect.
Sort of. You can't defy physics. I'm simple saying that the initial force exerted on each vehicle is
THE SAME. However, newton's second law is what counts. Newton's second law states that the net force on an object is equal to the rate of change of its linear momentum over times it's mass.
A critical component of a vehicle's rate of change of momentum is the design of the crumple zone. A lighter vehicle's crumple zone is much smaller, and the change in motion will be faster. therefore a lighter vehicle's deceleration will be greater in general and this is what you feel - this is the remaining force exerted upon it's occupants.
The Model S feared better in the crash because, yes the car is heavier, but Tesla's engineers are also genius' and the crumple zone in the front of the Model S is incredibly brilliant's designed. While vehicle mass is a very important factor in the equations, it is not the 'mass of the Model S' that saves you, but instead the design of the crumple zone. In fact, the mass of the your may work against you, not for you. The heavier your vehicle, the greater the force of impact. But this also depends on what your hitting and the resulting mph after the impact. In other words, consider heavy car A and light car B in head on collision. Heavy car A's change in velocity is from 60mph before impact to 15mph after impact. A's change in velocity is -45mph. Lighter car B goes from 60mph to -15mph (bounces backwards), thus B's change in velocity is 75mph. But what's even more critical than mass or the change in velocity is the time it takes to make this change. Let's put this into a very easy perspective. If it takes the heavier car .1 seconds to go from 60mph to 15mph but the lighter vehicle took 10 seconds to go from 60mph to -15mph, then the heavier car's occupants are not going to fair so well while the lighter car's occupants are doing just fime. This is where crumple zones come into play. It's a car's crumple zone that saves your life.
To understand further, you need to know how crumple zones work. This write up is pretty decent (4 pages)
http://auto.howstuffworks.com/car-driving-safety/safety-regulatory-devices/crumple-zone1.htm and I'll try to summarize below
Force of impact = mass * acceleration
Acceleration (deceleration) = delta velocity (change in velocity) / time
So basically, if you go from 60-0 in a very short about of time, say .8 seconds, then resulting force of impact is 60/.8=75.
The point of the crumple zone is to reduce the initial force of the crash and redistribute this force before it reaches the occupants.
The best way to reduce the initial force of the crash is by
extending the time of the crash. So crumple zones are designed to 'crumple'. Definition: 'Crush so that it becomes creased and wrinkled.' The act of crushing to crease/wrinkle takes time. The longer the better. Webster def of crumple zone: 'a section of an automobile body designed to absorb the force of an impact in order to protect the passengers.'
If the crumple zone extends the rate of deceleration from .8 seconds to 2 seconds, then 60/2 = 30. Force of impact is MUCH smaller. That is a *HUGE* life-saving result.
Now the remaining part of the equation is what to do with the remaining force. So it's not the weight of your vehicle that saves you (as obvious from the equations, it works against you, not for you), it's how the car is designed to redistribute the remaining force. You don't want all the remaining force to be exerted on the occupants. Crumple zones create a buffer around the perimeter of the car and help redistribute the remaining force of impact. It's gotta go somewhere, and you want it away from the occupants. It can be transferred to the object your hitting, or spent if your car is spinning around in circles after the crash, or it can be absorbed by your car itself (and hopefully not by you).
"Crumple zones spend as much force as possible so that other parts of the car as well as the occupants don't suffer the effects."
Crumple zones are also the reason why nascar racers can survive 150+mph crashes. These cars are designed with ridiculous crumple zones with parts flying off everywhere and twisted wreckage but yet the driver and climb right out of it. Most of the remaining force (kinetic energy) is wasted while the car is being destroyed and you see these crashes take a lot of time to complete.
Car crash (model) without crumple zone:
Car crash (model) with crumple zone:
Elon speaks about safety and Model S crumple zone. he talks about how long the crumple zone is and how it saves your life, watch from 1:40
For a detailed look at the crumple zone, Tesla's CTO talks about the unique features they have done for the crumple zone because there is no conventional gasoline engine taking up space:
So in short, the initial force exerted on each vehicle is the same, but it's the crumple zone's design that affects how much of that force is absorbed by each vehicle and how long it takes to complete the change in velocity. "in general" while mass affects the remaining force, the longer the time it takes for a vehicle to crumple is what's going to save your life. yes yes mass still matters though, especially when there is a big difference between them. if a mack truck hits a motorcycle, the initial force exerted upon each object is the same, but the net force on the mack truck is basically nothing because it's change in velocity wont be very big if much at all(i'm making up numbers here) force = m * (v/t) = 10000 * (0/.1) = 0. unfortunately the same can't be said for the motorcycle. force = 200 * (50/.1) = 100000. mack truck wins. motorcycle not so much.