There's tons of knowledgeable people like
@Xenoilphobe who stopped shouting endlessly and pointlessly once they got past their initial rage. He could be right to the ends of the earth and so could you.
If Tesla says Track Mode requires X. It requires X. No amount of justification on your part is going to change that.
It is what it is. You are lucky to not have taken car delivery and can still do something about it. Don't delay to where you gt a VIN assigned and compound your problem.
Pay the $5,000 or go to AWD, or buy a BMW.
Sounds mean but I'm helping to manage expectations for you. Think about what is important to you and deal with facts and not emotion.