So I'd be as happy if they opened new sites with 24 x 120kw chargers which didn't slow down, rather than 12 x 250Kw chargers which did.
That's not an equal comparison with current equipment. It's closer to 8 or 9 chargers that don't slow down. If you wanted 24 chargers that could deliver 120kW without slowing down, then that would need about 8 V3 supercharger cabinets and a power supply to match.
If your point is that you'd rather not exceed 120kW even when the equipment has spare capacity, then that's a reasonable viewpoint (there's an argument that 250kW is too fast, doesn't allow you time to eat a meal), but would only offer marginal savings to Tesla.
The V3 rating plate shown in a tweet a few posts upthread has a Nov 2022 manufacturing date, and differs slightly from the 2019 version I'd seen previously; the input current/power has been slightly uprated (was max 430A for a max power 350kVA@480V, now max 465A and max power 387kVA), but all other details (including the output at 631A max, 0-500V, 250kW max) are the same.
We don't know the efficiency, but that's an input of only 387/4 = 96.75kW per stall; if you are actually getting precisely 90kW each with all stalls in use that would be 93% efficiency, better than the 91.5% claimed for V2.
V3 is a win over V2 mainly for finer-grain sharing (and sharing over larger groups of stalls) - the actual available power per stall is not that much greater.
The 250kW capability is a slight win for capacity in the sense that more power can be drawn from the supply overall - the early-arrivals get their charging at a higher rate and so are done and gone by the time the peak arrives, rather than adding to that peak.