Installing a second meter is cheap and easy if your Tesla outlet is running off a subpanel. I bought this remanufactured meter online for less than $40 and the box was about $30 at Lowe's, I think. I felt comfortable installing myself given that I was working with a subpanel. The Tesla outlet is the only load connected to the meter so it's an accurate reading of only the electricity the car draws.
(Note: if you want to ensure it's up to code, etc, you can buy the parts and have an electrician do it. I am aware that my installation may not be perfectly up to code, but I have no qualms about its safety. I'm limiting the car to 24 amps because the subpanel itself was wired to a 30-amp breaker in the main panel. Feel free to suggest improvements that would comply with code, if necessary, but please don't admonish me for doing it myself.)