The tesla differential is fairly basic, so it should be using the brakes for traction control if it detects excessive slip on one side.
So you can use your brakes by not braking and going as fast as you can in the wet
I would have asked them to provide you with the old parts to inspect them as there is no way they should warp, this indicates excessive heat, which could be caused by a stuck caliper. Part of a suggested yearly service is to grease the caliper pins each year and scrub down the back and edges of the pads to ensure nothing seizes due to the little use they get.
So you can use your brakes by not braking and going as fast as you can in the wet
I would have asked them to provide you with the old parts to inspect them as there is no way they should warp, this indicates excessive heat, which could be caused by a stuck caliper. Part of a suggested yearly service is to grease the caliper pins each year and scrub down the back and edges of the pads to ensure nothing seizes due to the little use they get.