New one tbd, but for the old one the S does actually outperform the 3 in corners. “feel” rarely correlates to actual performance.
As a daily driver, feel is all that matters. Most people don't track their cars but they "feel" their drive every day. Not everyone cares for a Model S which may be faster by x seconds on a track but feels like a boat and to extract fast times, you brute force your way through every corner. Many would rather have the lighter car that can be tossed around in every day driving with enough power to win in most stop light shenanigans.
Tesla definitely found the right balance of power, weight, and value for this car. Getting jealous of all the new owners