This main objection(s) to my OP seem to be (mainly) that "There are more costs than just fuel costs." Of course I know this, but my question was specifically about
fuel costs. You can tell me I'm silly to consider fuel as a single variable, and maybe that's true, but Tesla does it (they famously factor the potential gas-savings into the "true" cost of a Tesla, in fact!)
I am not
complaining about the price of gas or the price of electricity or the efficiency (or inefficiency) of a Tesla. I realize that the price of gas and electricity are largely set by governments, not by the actual cost of these energy sources. So they are somewhat arbitrary, but they are real costs that the consumer bears, and therefore not entirely irrelevant.
I was just noticing that my Tesla costs more to run, mile for mile, than my Prius. Which I found surprising since the fuel cost of EVs is often touted as being much lower than fuel costs for ICEs.
The second objection to my OP seems to be that I am comparing apples-to-oranges. That I cannot compare a Tesla to a Prius as if they were somehow similar. I disagree. My basic needs are met by both vehicles: I need to move my body, my kids, and sometimes some groceries, from point A to point B, reasonably safely, at roughly the speed limit, protected from the weather and road, in a lawful manner. You can tell me about your electric motorcycle or your carbon fiber bicycle, but these don't meet my criteria. The Prius and Tesla both do.
If you want to compare a BMW or Mercedes to a Tesla (based on their cost or weight or luxury feel or whatever) then I could also claim this is apples-to-oranges since the Tesla is safer, faster, has a different feel, etc. It's a
pretty arbitrary line we draw to distinguish what cars we feel are "comparable" versus not. I am bowing out of that discussion after noting that I just wanted to compare my two cars which, as I have said, both serve my basic needs.
Anyway, I'm not bitching or anything here... this thread has been immensely useful.
And I am super grateful to this forum's members who seem to be among the most positive (and tolerant) enthusiast community I've yet encountered. You guys almost never flame anyone, even if they're ignorant or Tesla-adverse. Huge kudos.