I agree....I am in the same boat and I was very annoyed that I felt I was lied to. Tesla put out a video of its self driving vehicle in October and sales reps really made me think the vehicle I ordered in November would get this functionality when I ordered it. I was also never told that the vehicle would actually have 1/3 less range in the cold weather and that the battery would not charge at the posting charging rates if it was cold and the battery was not in optimal conditions. I was not told that Auto Wipers would not work and auto high beams would also not work not to mention other safety features that are not enabled.
At this point I will wait patiently another few weeks and if in another few weeks these functions are not enabled I will be requesting a refund for the $8000 I pre-paid for features I was not given. Don't get me wrong I like the car but I bought the car because of what they showed me it could do. To date Tesla is pushing there AP 2.0 video's and its on the website showing expected December 2016 and they are touting all the safety features not activated. I guess what I am more upset with is that there is no communication from Tesla and the only information we can find is what is posted on these forums from other members. What would it take for Tesla to send a simple email to all users waiting and give us some update?
I also do not think its fair that those AP 1.0 users waited almost a year in a the past and it should not be an excuse that they waited so new users should also wait. What Tesla needs is some accountability for setting and meeting deadlines. Their customers would be extremely happy if Tesla would start to under promise and strive to over deliver. I personally feel they over promised knowing that they could not deliver but they wanted the Q4 sales numbers so they had their sales reps do what was necessary to meet those sales numbers.
During test drive not one mention that the features being shown and paid for would not work when delivered.
I understand that AP is a huge advancement and may have iterations but the auto high beams and wipers and simple cruise control does not seem to be advanced features on a 100k+ vehicle.
It may all be tied to the software but that was never disclosed that none of would work when delivered.