Run a car for a couple hundred thousand miles and you'll see much more than powerplant issues occur.
Yeah. I realize there are actually two questions packed up in my question, and you've answered the "other one"
(1) What will fail first based on
mileage, for people who drive a lot
(2) What will fail first based on
years, for people who don't
I am in category #2. A bunch of the stuff you described is category #1 failures.
If they do bad matches of aluminum to steel, that will definitely fail even without much driving.
Anything rubber seems like likely possibilities for category #2 (rubber just dies after a number of temperature cycles), but I'm not sure where all the rubber bits are. Mass gasket replacements on the HVAC and cooling systems?
The nylon parts of the air suspension would be an expensive replacement which will probably go eventually.
The automatic door handles are a good possibility as well. And the plug-in socket. Those will both get a lot of play and a lot of abuse.
My LCD screens are decades old now, thank you
so I think that the touchscreen will be OK.
Actually, the key may well be the first thing to break -- that's what happened on my family's Audis. I'm going to get multiple extras (pricey but they're often hard to replace identically after the fact).