OP, it is an expensive car. When you are spending so much, and if you wanted some additional feature, I don't think you should hold back and regret at a later time. If you can afford x and can't afford x+5, I doubt if one can afford even x. If it is because you have come with a number beyond which you don't want to stretch, I will say many have done that. I had once asked a question on stretching and many owners have done at least mentally. Just get over it and order what you like. Saving few grands does not matter in great scheme.
Based on your signature your car seems perfect for me!
It's not about what we can afford now, it's about what we want to be able to afford later. My wife and I are younger and we have always analyzed our finances and come up with a budget for all major purchases/decisions. If it weren't for those budgets in the past we wouldn't be buying a Tesla now. "Afford" is such a subjective term. We don't need a Tesla, we want a Tesla.
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I'll have spent it a couple of times before it arrives anyway
LOL, that's the real reason I didn't include it in the budget.
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This thread has given us a lot of great feedback. My wife has been following as well and it's given us a lot of great dialogue.
After 24 hours (really this obsession about the S is about 5 years old now), this is where we stand:
- We will get the S85 (need range, want warranty, don't need extra performance)
- We will not get rear facing seats (family of 4, safety/heat)
- We want Pano (a cheaper glass roof would have been a great option)
- We are thinking tech is a good idea (mostly peer pressure)
- We want parking sensors if we get tech (one bad ding is $500 to repair)
- We love the black paint but worried about scratches and swirls so we will go metallic paint, probably grey
- We were comfortable on the leather seats of the demo, but have only read good things about textile, haven't seen textile in person but the good reviews will leave $1500 in our pocket.
- Anything I haven't mentioned, we have no desire for.
- I thought making a decision to buy the car would be the hard part, apparently the options are the hard part.