I'm saying that if Iran wants to be treated as a civilized country, they need to become a civilized country.
They are. One of the oldest civilizations in the world (along with Egypt and Sumeria). And extraordinarily peace-loving. Iran has never attacked another country in over 150 years.
There's some serious question about whether the *US* is civilized, however. The US did overthrow the legitimate popularly elected government of Iran in the 1950s in order to establish a dictatorship -- a situation which led directly to the Islamic Revolution in 1979.
Their citizens created the government and laws they have. It is not a dictatorship. The majority made Iran what it is today.
Only half-true. The "Supreme Leader", first Khomenei and then Khamenei, arrogated power to himself and repeatedly overrides the Majlis (Parliament) and disqualifies candidates. Iran is only a semi-democratic state, like the UK was before the 1830s, or like Morocco is now. Or, arguably, like the US is now, what with our practice of putting the guy who gets fewer votes into the President's office, something we've done twice in the last 20 years.
I personally believe that all the insane US sanctions and hostile actions towards Iran are driven by anger that Iran wouldn't submit to the US imperial bootheel. The military-industrial complex resents the fact that Iran threw out the US's puppet dictator. Every hostile action by the US since then has simply been a petty snit.
Objectively speaking Iran is the natural ally of the US people in the region, being more secular, more pro-science, better educated, more democratic, more youthful, and more religiously tolerant than Saudi Arabia or Kuwait or the UAE. But which countries act as US puppets and which ones don't? That seems to be the basis of US government policy (and it doesn't matter which party is in power in the US).
Which shouldn't surprise anyone who's studied US policy towards South America: for over 150 years the US has overthrown democracies and supported puppet dictators in South America, and everyone in South America knows it. The completely counterproductive sanctions against Cuba seem to be the same sort of snit -- they overthrew the US puppet dictator Batista, how dare they!
I wish we'd start running foreign policy on some sort of rational grounds, rather than based on petty snits against countries which overthrew US puppet dictators, but this has been going on longer than I've been alive, so it'll take a major change in our government to see it happen.
As for Trump's order, it's just gross. Utterly counterproductive. Well, it helps Canada, I guess, but it's utterly counterproductive to US interests. Major businesses will probably move out of the US after this uncivilized, thoughtless immigration order. It affects loyal green card holders. But it does nothing to prevent Saudi terrorists from coming into the US (remember most of the 9/11 terrorists were Saudi), which just shows how abusively irrational it is.