I’m really not sure what you’re trying to say.
Prior to this update, in the 3 days I owned the car I was able to walk up to the door and unlock it. My phone stayed in my pocket the entire time. After the update, quite often the car screen is telling me to tap the keycard to get in. At that point I just either do that or grab my phone and open the app and unlock the car. Do you follow me, now?
Try the following in order; stop when the phone's behavior returns to normal
1. Toggle the phone's bluetooth off and then back on.
2. Swipe the Tesla app, and restart it.
3. Reinstall the Tesla app.
4. Return the car; you still have 4 days to do that.