Yeah concerns around fit and finish are uniquely individualistic. I don't know why TMC users project onto others what they should "accept". I feel like for each individual buyer, the only "right" thing is whatever the person who is spending money feels. I spent money on this 2023 Model X and it's failing to meet my (edit: and my wife's) expectations. I hope Tesla comes through or it's going to suck.
I used to work in automotive (corporate and manufacturing), so I think I just notice more things than others may not care about. I also worked on a project to get laser operated gap guns (both human and robots) to measure cars to improve build quality and align the cross car beam better. So I'm doubly attuned to some of these things. Tesla needs to invest in some gap guns and actually give a damn. It's not supposed to be the buyers who give a damn. It's supposed to be the manufacturer who takes pride in their craft.
It seems to me that Tesla employs an expert in ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ for manufacturing fit and finish. The paint, panels, and builds are just poor. Good tech, but rubbish build consistency and quality. It's probably a robot set with a wide tolerance level hah. They probably fired anyone who actually cares since it would just slow down production.
Anyway, please post pictures of your Powerwalls and their disconnects. So I can pass judgement or approval.