So you are saying the larger diameter tires are also wider
He's saying that, but I just got these numbers from shop.tesla.com:
19" Winter Package: 265 all around (265/50R19)
20" Slipstream: 265 front (265/45R20), 275 rear (275/45R20)
20" Sonic Carbon: 265 front (265/45R20), 275 rear (275/45R20)
22" Turbine: 265 front (265/35R22), 285 rear (285/35/R22)
So the 22" rims are roughly 3.6% wider in the rear only (same width in the front).
Using
Tire Size Calculator I can see that that leads to roughly the following Diameters & Circumferences:
20" Front 29.4" Dia & 92.3" Circ
22" Front 29.3" Dia & 92.0" Circ
20" Rear 29.7" Dia & 93.4" Circ
22" Rear 29.9" Dia & 93.7" Circ
So that actually makes the front tire smaller on the 22 than the 20 (albeit probably negligibly), and while the rear is larger, it seems likely to also be negligible. I'm not sure on the math to determine the front-to-back contact patch size, but it would vary due to a lot of factors and the difference is probably going to be negligible given all of the above.
Lots of people say it's because they're heavier, too, but I don't buy that, either. Seems to me that the weight would work like a flywheel and only be a negative during acceleration. I suspect that it has more to do with aerodynamics. That is to say that there is likely more air churning around causing constant resistance due to the larger wheel (with holes for air to go through) and smaller tire surface area (where air can only go around and not through).
ETA: For the record, I had already typed all of this before seeing the post below (which came through as I typed):
I think for the X, the front tires have the same width at 265 for both 20" and 22" wheel, but the rear tires are wider for the 22" at 285 instead of the 275 for 20". Also the weight would make a difference too. The 22" wheel + tire would be much heavier.