My experience is that the people who have to make themselves feel better about spending a $100+ on an S or an X usually talk derogatorily about a 3 “Oh, that’s the cheap one right?” Everyone else looks at the 3 as an equal member of the Tesla family. It’s the people insecure about spending that much money who usually make comments.
My wife works at a hospital and one doctor in particular has an S for his wife. He is aware that we are getting a 3 and he made a comment about it being the cheap one. Yet, he bought an early S 40kwh which was cheaper that my 3.