Is there a car company that sends out more frequent software updates than Tesla? Certainly not one of the legacy automakers! Most of them would require you to bring the car to a dealer.Then don’t buy one. Tesla is probably THE most connected and remotely managed car brand and there’s no way around that.
Staged rollouts are nothing new in the software world.
I checked the update statistics for my cars. The median times between updates for my FSD car is about three weeks. The median time for my non-FSD car is under two weeks.