Same here. I opened the boot, thinking that would allow the Tesla button on the charge lead to open the charge port, but it doesn't. I needed to push a rear door handle to wake the car and get it to recognise the signal from the Tesla button.
I'm pretty sure the frunk is the same, in that it can be opened from the fob, like the boot, without waking the car up. The give away for me is that the mirrors only unfold when any door handle is pushed, not when the boot or frunk are opened (I have mirror fold on lock set).