She saw the grandkids at Xmas. Now, it's via FaceTime. You assume a vaccine or treatment may never come or take too long. I think it's impossible to say so soon. Research is happening so fast, I wouldn't bet against the researchers. We may not get a vaccine, but at least a treatment, as we better understand the virus. Rather than rush into getting infected, why not wait a few months and see how the research is going. If it looks then like there's no hope for a vaccine in the next few years, then by all means, one can change one's approach, but I think it's far too soon to think a vaccine or treatment might never come or take too long.All I'm saying is that death is a thing. We're all going to die. I hope we all live very long lives. I hope your mom lives many more years. Our chances of dying of corona are very low. You have to 1) contract it, 2) get deathly ill from it. For the avg person the chances of that happening are so low that it's not worth switching up your life much.
You sound like a great son! Your mom is lucky. 91 is long! My grandma died at 92.
So does she see the grandkids now? Will she have to wait until a vaccine? What if one never comes or takes years?
I mean, isn't life about living? If I were a grandparent I'd rather hug/play with my grandkids and risk getting Corona. Quality of life matters imo.
For myself, I'm alot like you, I've always been pretty fearless. But it's like climbing Everest, I'm sure I could do it, and I'd love to do it, but I have others to think about, so I don't.