Self leveling isn't only on high end cars. It's even on Honda's with HID. They work great. You don't even notice they're working. The light is just pointed where it's suppose to be pointed. I'm actually shocked cars can have HID and not have self leveling.
You must have driven cars with halogen bulbs before. :/
In one sentence you say you want things simpler and lighter and then you say you prefer Air Suspension, which is WAY more complex and weighs more than coils. And as someone already said, does NOTHING to keep your headlights level as you're driving.
Have YOU ever driven a car with and without steering headlights on a dark (meaning no street lights) twisty road? It's a HUGE difference, IMO. Cornering lights definitely help for slower speeds, like in a parking lot, and other manufactures have them IN ADDITION to steering HID's. You don't even notice the headlights are turning because they just light up where you're looking. It's when you're driving a rental and realize how much you can't see without the steering lights.
The MS is already almost 1,000 lbs over a similar BMW or Mercedes. 5-10 extra pounds that make the headlights turn with the steering wheel and autolevel is TOTALLY worth it, IMO.
I'm pretty sure autopilot relies on the road markings to navigate still.
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Tesla is so far behind in headlight tech it's embarrassing. Start at 2 min if you want to skip the fluff. We just need DOT to approve some new lighting technology.
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