Yes, as was said, it has no effect. If your wifi connection is stable, that means the VPN connection to the mothership is in place. Signal strength of a bar plus or minus won't change bandwidth and surely won't tell the mothership to increase or decrease your priority.We'd been on 2018.10 for what felt like an eternity. Having to read through pages of positive comments about the AP upgrades without being able to experience it was rough! I finally gave in and called Tesla's national support number.
They were immediately able to determine that new firmware downloads had been attempted several times but were failing due to the wi-fi connection. We were getting a solid 3 bars in the garage, but I guess that wasn't good enough. I moved the router to a spot where we got a full 5 bars and notified Tesla. They pushed the firmware again and within an hour we got the prompt to install. Yay!
So for anyone who has been having trouble getting 2018.12, try moving your router. Apparently a measly 3-bar signal is not adequate for downloading this latest update.
Now, if the VPN keeps resetting, then you have a problem that needs to be fixed. If you reboot the MCU and the wifi connects and stays stable for 5 minutes, it's good to go.