I do think I covered both. I understand that charging time is unpredictable, and depends on things like stall pairing . It's something we're already aware of. What I did try to do, was post from the perspective of someone waiting, not someone charging, as the vast majority of posts on the matter seem to do. That charging times are not linear and cannot be planned for, is something every one of us who's used SCs knows. But why would someone waiting in line with impatient 2/4-legged passengers care ? They're all still biased towards wanting you out of the way, regardless of circumstances.
I also do not claim that charging after eating is practical. Many factors about EV ownership are not 'practical' yet. Having to route ourselves through SC-populated routes, for example. And yet it's the tradeoff we made while picking a Tesla, and is therefore something worth doing even if it's somewhat impractical, while better options are devised. One could be reasonable - charge if the SC looks like it has space to spare, and avoid using it until you can be there to take the car away on time if it looks heavily utilized, for example. I'm certain I'm not the only owner who already does this, either.
Personally, I think just eliminating all of the local 'park and ride' jerks and others involved in such gross misuse, will significantly improve things, at least for the short to medium term. I have no idea what'll happen when the M3s are out in force. But certain impractical aspects will not really go away until battery range is a little greater, and charging rate improved from the already industry-leading rate from the SCs.