This is neither here nor there, and I mean no disrespect to Bonnie (as Sig #2 she absolutely should have a better line on status of her car than us lowly Prod reservation holders). But while it's great that Bonnie's being treated fairly, the group of reservation holders as a whole surely are not.
Either the car has launched or it hasn't. By any reasonable (even charitable) definition, the car has not launched: pricing, specs, believable official delivery dates for those with reservations--none of these things exists for any customers 5.5 weeks after launch.
Given that Tesla held a launch event in September and zero public customer cars even have delivery dates yet, IMO there should have been significant coordinated communication to the reservation holder group by now. Not necessarily an apology, but a clear 'here's where we're at, here's what's holding us up, here's a date at which we'll follow up with another update'. Something more than the single largely detail-free post-launch email we received. (Though I'd love to believe that email's suggestion that all reservation holders would be invited to configure this year, hope is waning.) It's rather embarrassing that Tesla continues with their secrecy in November. It does suggest that reservation holders are being taken for granted, or at least not being thought of as actual people trying to patiently wait for actual vehicles that they actually need to carry actual families in actual timeframes.
I'm not going anywhere, and neither is my reservation. But the amateur communication does strain Tesla's credibility and certainly is getting rather old. I am not surprised by it as I've been around long enough to know that this is largely how the S launch went, but I had hoped things would be improved this time around. With the 3 reveal slated to happen in < 5 months, the X situation doesn't inspire hope that Tesla is prepared to start managing *that* group relatively imminently!
Following the situation closely and reading between the lines as many of us here do, it's clear (IMO) that the root cause is that the car and its attendant engineering decisions and supplier lineup are not complete, 5.5 weeks after 'launch'. This makes the day-before-Q3-end launch date quite suspicious. Let's just say they didn't pick that date for the good of their customers.