Thank you for your replies - many of them were extremely helpful, and caused me to look further into the background of some other companies. I knew this post might cause critiques of my thought process, and I understand that.
But there were some specific replies that helped me come to terms with dealing with this moral dichotomy. And overall, Tesla is doing much more in helping the world than any other automotive manufacturer to date - and it seems those manufacturers are only being dragged kicking and screaming into it because of Tesla. Companies like Volkswagen that get caught providing bogus emission standards are arguably worse than a CEO that spreads misinformation, is complicit in a toxic workplace, or riles up certain groups.
If we decided to boycott buying goods from every company that does something bad or is associated with views we don't agree with, we'd probably end up only owning maybe a couple of smoothies and perhaps some stationary. Ultimately, I will separate my purchase of Tesla from the CEO, hope he tones down his toxic rhetoric, and realize that nothing is perfect. I believe i'll take delivery on Wednesday.