Spoke with a couple of Tesla showrooms today.
Looks like the September EDD for Bay Area folks is about accurate, if you ordered late May/early June. Since they don't work on a 'first come first serve' basis, and on a 'sell as many cars as possible', the SF bay area is literally the last priority for them. East Coast + Canada first, Central US, then finally Nor Cal at the end of quarter. They said the exception to a September delivery would be cancellations that could potentially match with you.
Going to hop off these forums for a bit, the Estimated Disappointment Day is rough, and having to wait 4 months sucks, esp when the initial EDD was supposed to be no later than August, and that's what 'was promised'.
Thinking back to 7 years ago when I did a custom order BMW 228, and my SA would provide me weekly details + access to a website that would show you the status of your car, that day. Even had shipping information when it was loaded onto the Boat from Europe and you can track it like a UPS package, haha. Compare that to Tesla... and yea. Yikes. Double yikes.
Grand scheme of things another month or two isn't bad, but I'm just worried on the long term service of this car. Stories of broken windshields taking months to replace really makes me think I should look elsewhere... But we'll see.
Good luck everyone, hope you all get your cars!
6/1 order date white/white SR+